Special Valentine’s Day Post

February 13, 2009

Well tomorrow is Valentine’s Day and I am not much into the whole Valentine’s Day thing, but I wanted to honor my lovely wife. We have been married 9 1/2 years exactly tomorrow. So here is my top 9 1/2 favorite things about her.

1. She has a Passion to see the Kingdom of God manifest itself on Earth in a way that changes people’s lives.

2. I love that she has a passion to see me succeed! (I am very blessed)

3. She thinks I am handsome & sexy! (she tells me often - yes I am blessed)

4. She is an amazing mom! Ashlee takes such good care of my girls, and she is always teaching them new things and most importantly about God!

4.5 She mother’s the people in our church in a powerful way that allows them to grow and mature.

5. Ashlee is a wonderful wife in so many ways, I could not even begin to explain.

6. Ashlee is beautiful and sexy!

7. Ashlee is intelligent, ambitious, and always believes God that anything is possible.

8. Ashlee has a good sense of humor and always loves a good romantic comedy!

9. Ashlee has an intense passion for enjoying the things I like, and makes them her own! (NFL, UFC, Suspense Movies and it blesses my socks off!)

Ashlee, will you be my Valentine :) !


Disney on Ice

February 13, 2009

Tonight I took my wife and kids out on a fun date night.

We drove to nearby Green Bay to eat at Margarita’s Mexican Restaurant, and then over to the Resch Center to see 100 years of Disney on Ice.

It might have been the best Disney show I have seen. The one thing that I know for sure is that my kids had a blast, and they were ecstatic about going to the show. The entire show both girls just pointed, clapped, and smiled. Absolutely worth  every penny and amount of effort spent to make tonight happen!

Have you taken your family out on a date recently?

Next week Lessons Via Parenting 2 & Leadership Via Dora part 3


Lessons Via Parenting

February 9, 2009

Glad to be back after a few days preparing for Design for Life 1.3 (final message in that series…God Rocked it out on Sunday! Praise God!

About two weeks ago my youngest daughter (Addie) was sitting in her recliner (a child sized one for 50 lbs or less) talking to me about random things. Then she heard Ash and I start to discuss dinner.

So Addie said, “We have enough food, right?”. I said, “Yes sweetie”. She said, “We always have enough food, right?” Again I said, “yes, God takes good care of us”.

Third times, a charm. She says, “Dad, we have enough food right?”

So I walked over to her recliner and knelt down to rub noses with her, and said, “Sweetie, come over to the couch and chat with me.” So we walked over to the couch and I pulled her up into my lap and rested my cheek on the top of her head. As I did this, I began to explain that mommy and daddy discuss how much money we want to spend on things, because we want to be a good steward. I then explained that God blesses us by taking care of our needs. Finally, I spent a few minutes building her up and praising her for how good she has been doing in dancing, cleaning her room, and learning new things. Then as I was putting her back down on the ground I told her beautiful and smart she was, and that God had such a wonderful destiny for her life as she grew into a smart, intelligent, beautiful young women! She said, “When I get bigger, right?” (A common discussion at my house)

Well, later that day I was in my office talking with God about something’s. That is when God reminded me of my discussion with my daughter earlier that morning. I immediately, was reminded specifically about how the conversation ended. It ended with me speaking life over my daughters future, and her receiving it without question. Well, she did question if it was when she got bigger, sort of. (She ends 80% of things with ,Right? )

During this time, I just began to understand that God wanted me to accept somethings He had been explaining to me in the same way Addie accepted my words of live over her future. I was supposed to accept it without question, not knowing when or how, but the fact that FATHER said it. You see Addie does not question if I am right or not, she simply wanted to know is this now or the future? “When I am bigger, right?”.

Jesus describes this type of situation in Mark 10:13-16
13 Then they brought little children to Him, that He might touch them; but the disciples rebuked those who brought them. 14 But when Jesus saw it, He was greatly displeased and said to them, “Let the little children come to Me, and do not forbid them; for of such is the kingdom of God. 15 Assuredly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will by no means enter it.” 16 And He took them up in His arms, laid His hands on them, and blessed them.

Jesus is describing that we should receive the Kingdom of God in the same manner as a child. Not that we should become like Children, but that we should receive the Kingdom of God like children.

Sometimes God wants to sit us in His lap and just tell us about His plans for us, and to listen to Him talk about His Kingdom. Basically to act like a 3 year old girl listening and reacting to her Earthly father, when our Heavenly Father is speaking to us. Here are the things God showed me through Addie.

  • Trusting that what is being said is 100% true with out doubt!
  • To be straightforward with our questions. Addie did not care about money or cost, she just wanted me to tell her there was enough food. Sometimes we get carried away with the why and how. Addie did not care about that, and when Father God tells me something, I should not be either.
  • Addie obeyed my every word fully. When I called her to me, she ran expectantly to sit with me. It started though with me getting down on her level and rubbing noses. You see Father God is trying to pour out His love on you. Are you rubbing noses back or turning away?
  • To live life with a sense of Awe and Wonder! You see, Addie was tuned into every word I was saying. She was in awe of the words I was speaking. I was speaking life over her, and she was taking in what her daddy was saying for all it was worth. Are you?

My final thought is this: I expect my children to act this way when I want to speak with them to speak life over them, why should I think that God would expect anything less of me?

Is there something God is trying to teach you through your children?
Has God taught you something recently through a child’s eyes?


Christmas Party II

December 13, 2008

Last night the Bradford Family held it’s 2nd annual Christmas Party.

We had 11 adults come over for the annual board game party. We had enough food to feed about 30 people, and it was all very yummy!

We spent the first 30 or 40 minutes eating and chatting about various topics from kids to i-phones.

We then played a 3 team game of Cranium WOW which was a complete blast. There were several times that everyone was laughing hysterically. At one point, I was laughing so hard, I could barely breath.

One of the funnest parts of the night, is a tradition at our board game parties! We had random drawings throughout the night for our many door prizes. We had enough prizes for everyone to get 2 door prizes. I wish I would have take some pictures, and will have to start doing that more.

Any good Christmas Parties Yet? Any your looking forward to?


Anticipation

December 5, 2008

Yesterday Morning I woke up and felt a little congested with some head pressure and tense shoulder. While I was brushing my teeth, I told Ashlee that the facts are that I am congested with some head pressure and tense shoulders, but the truth is that I am healed by Jesus Christ! That I am going to have a wonderful day and feel good.

I went to the office with a full list of items to accomplish. During the day I began to listen to a CD by Paul Baloche. Through out the morning I just began to feel really light-hearted and a sense of joy just washed over me. During my lunch break I took my journal and began to develop our announcements for our small group Wednesday Night (we ended up canceling due to weather).

It was one of those moments where I was so excited about up coming messages and the vision God has been giving me for 2009 that I was almost more excited about announcing the things at our small group than the message we had for the night.

The anticipation for a fun, enjoyable, and relaxed evening was growing by the minute. I had to leave the office, run to the store, and then get home to put the ornaments on the tree.

When I got home, I realized that the driveway needed to be shoveled again, even though I did it at 6 am. While I was shoveling several people call and canceled coming. So I was a little frustrated, and asked God, “But, God I was anticipating tonight so much, and I felt like you were setting this up, and putting the light-hearted joy about tonight in my heart.”

Immediately, the following thoughts just rushed through my mind, “Can’t you have a fun, enjoyable, relaxed night with your girls putting the ornaments on the tree without rushing”

 So I rushed up to the house, and yelled into the wife. Ashlee we should call and just cancel Life Group! Only two of the 8 families are coming tonight, so we should cancel and enjoy our evening.

Let me tell you, I am so glad that God’s ways are higher than our ways! We had an absolutely had a wonderful night. A delicious dinner of Taco’s and Banana Cream Pie. We took our time and decorated the tree and snuggled with the kids until they fell asleep in the living room.